The 10 Best Massage Oils to Help Set the Mood

Sending a partner a heart-shaped box of Valentine's Day chocolates or stunning bouquet never goes out of style, but BAZAAR editors have the scoop on the one thing your date can really use on the 14th: A good old-fashioned massage. And while we're more than confident in your ability to play masseuse, using one of the best massage oils to assist in the process can elevate the entire experience. "Sex starts with the mood, and touch is a huge part of feeling connected and close," Maude founder and creative director Éva Goicochea tells BAZAAR.com. "In fact, studies have found that it raises oxytocin levels and in turn, is helpful to overall health and bonding."

How can you best prep the ambience for a sensual massage?

Goicochea adds that along with the scalp and different sections of the torso and legs, the brain is one of the largest erogenous zones in the body. Since the brain helps move the needle when it comes to arousal, mood-setting, fragrance, and other sensory experiences are a major factors in how we view intimacy. To prepare your space ahead of a massage, professionals advise keeping its temperature no warmer than 78 degrees Farenheit, turning off all electric lights, and lighting candles instead. As for the right soundtrack? Opt for a calming instrumental playlist to quiet the mind (Maude also has a few great options to choose from here).

What are some key components to consider when selecting a massage oil or candle?

Ultimately, the best conductor for a great body massage comes down to your preference in moisturizer, as well as the products you're most comfortable using on yourself or someone else. "We recommend using high-quality ingredients that are easily absorbed by the skin, like jojoba and almond oil. If available, add a few drops of orange blossom essential oil and jasmine for extra hydration and relaxation," senior vice president development and operations at THE WELL Vivi Garcia-Tunon says. "If using a massage candle, ensure your partner likes warm products applied to the skin, and try a bit of product on your hand before using it on them. I would avoid any candles with petroleum-based ingredients in favor of natural beeswax or soy wax."

Aside from a series of karate chops, what are some easy massage techniques to use with body oils?

Lead massage therapist at Chillhouse Kimberley Holmes-Cardona says whether your partner is sitting or standing, starting with an open palm is key. "Leaning firmly into a stroke, go from the lower- or mid-back, up to the shoulders. Next, glide out from the neck and back," she explains of the tension relieving process. "Go up toward the neck at the base of the skull, then down the back again. You can do this one side at a time, or both sides at once." Holmes-Cardona also notes that moving slowly and using applied pressure can help make your hard work that much more enjoyable.

So, what's the best way to broach the idea of a massage with your partner?

An expert-approved romantic roll-out goes like this: Let your partner know your plans for the evening to help build anticipation. Later, kick off the experience by drawing them an aromatic bath, and massaging their scalp while in the tub. While they're soaking, verbally walk your partner through the step-by-step process of what they'll experience during their special treatment. It's also helpful to consider what other body parts you can use—other than your hands—to massage your partner with.

"Get creative!," Garcia-Tunon adds. "Set up a small relaxation area with snacks and a drink of choice to inspire togetherness, love and affection. As an extra bonus, use some of author and psychotherapist Esther Perel's couples cards featuring sensual prompts to further deepen your connection." While I'm usually among the first to indulge in a charcuterie board, or delectable assortment of chocolate covered strawberries, our experts advise not eating too much or too heavily before a massage.

For the perfect night cap to your Valentine's date night, we've rounded up some of the best massage oils editors and experts agree are worth the buy—with bonus points for their supreme hydration benefits.